We also want to make it super simple to spin up your own Jam for example if you are organizing a micro conference over a weekend and for that we will need to better understand what that means so we can recommend what kind of server/specs to go for.
Thanks a lot for bringing this question up. We need a good answer.
We are currently reaching out to friends and strangers who have a bit more experience running high demand WebRTC + mixing setups to learn about the scaling challenges.
That said, we are quite surprised how well p2p WebRTC works for audio-only in smaller rooms if most participants have a decent internet connection.
WebRTC + Opus is magic.