That's a pretty self-centered way of seeing things. The isolation isn't that severe to you, in your circumstances. But how do you know what esotericn's circumstances are? How do you know what his/her mental health is, and how the lockdown affects it? I submit that you don't know. You're projecting your circumstances and your mental health onto esotericn, and then judging that he/she is selfish for not being able to take it.