This still doesn't make any sense. Every single government service provided services to people besides you. You're essentially saying there should be no government.
The government plows the streets. Provides police and fire service. Makes sure street lights and sidewalks exist. Handles deeds for property. Handles court cases. If you had to "consent" to all these services providing benefits to other people the entire government would cease to exist.
"I have to consent to anything that doesn't directly benefit me" means a ton of things aren't even going to exist when you actually need them.