Looking back I say F** that, what a waste of my youth.
I could've worked half and accomplished just as much, maybe more in different areas had I taken the time to explore not just more of the world but myself.
Some people also have a life out of the office and "work" in this out of work life.
I think that in a few years your opinion may change again. Until then, I hope you're getting good ROI, and I'll admit that I'm a bit jealous as well.
Ofc there will be a minority of people that perhaps even enjoy it, but the vast majority is gonna suffer serious mental health issues. Not to mention that, as others pointed out, some people like to have a life outside of work. If you work 60 hours a week you either don't sleep much or your life is just working and sleeping.
This also jives with my experience noticing colleagues. The least productive people I've worked with have worked the longest hours.
There's no work-life balance as long as we work 5 days a week and rest 2, imo.
> The Dalai Lama, when asked what surprised him most about humanity, he said:
> “Man. Because he sacrifices his health in order to make money. Then he sacrifices money to recuperate his health.
I could easily pull those hours in my early 20s,etc but nowadays I have family and other things so if I do those hours I'll be behind with other things so in addition to needing a bit of extra rest as I'm older, I'll also be in a "todo-deficit" that needs to be caught up with making for more stress in the near/middle term.
I much prefer 5hrs/day of focus, arriving at the office refreshed, excited, and creative.
I think you hit the nail on the head about it being a personal situation. I'm the type of person that has trouble relaxing when things are not "complete" and I have the capacity to go deep and lose myself when working. As a result, I've had no problem with getting 8+ hours of focus time in a workday. I'm able to either find a quiet spot in the office and/or put on my headphones and block out the world to get stuff done. I derive huge satisfaction from being able to do that. Since moving to management, my time is much more meeting-heavy, but when time is available, I've been able to go deep and still get 20+ hours of deep focus a week.
Fast forward to WFH, and I'm having performance issues for the first time in my 20+ year career. Instead of quick hallway conversations that are over and done and held on an ad-hoc basis, meetings have to be scheduled or work done in longer-running messaging threads. On top of that, having a teenager with ADHD struggling through school is a constant source of interruption, and I'm lucky to get 8 hours of focused time in a week. I'm miserable and will be the first one back when my office opens.
Don’t underestimate the social value of being busy as compared to actual, measurable outputs. In a lot of high paced environments the former is more important than the latter.