Isn't it considered best practice to be secure by default? Wasn't that big fiasco with MongoDB? Why should PyPI, RubyGems, or npm be any different? I'm sure there is some reason but I'd expect them to all pull private repos before public.
Maybe the bug wasn't explained correctly but if it prefers public over private that seems like a bug.
OTOH, it certainly is an issue that if you forget and happen to test some code without being configured to have the private package server as your default then you'd get public repos.
Maybe instead of named packages companies should be using private URLs for packages. That way you always get what you ask for?