But people generally had the good manners not to call in the middle of the night, unless it was an emergency.
I know it will not work for everyone but I've setup alerts so almost nothing makes a sound on the phone, even with DnD off.
I just set my phone to DnD with calls allowed and notifications silenced, and it works wonders. Maybe it should be the default?
Maybe that's what designers/developers should consider when working on notifications: this notification will potentially wake up someone, let's not do it unless they explicitly asked us to wake them up if this happened.
This person just doesn't get it either. When we were in school they'd walk into my dorm room at about 3 in the morning too if I didn't lock it