This is not something conceptual about Wayland, or intrinsic to it. Any display protocol can have multiple client/server implementations. It just so happens that most of the free desktop standardized around the X.org implementation for X11, but even for X11 there were multiple client and server implementations.
The second thing is that software duplication efforts have a well known, tried and tested solution: implement the duplicated effort in shared implementations or libraries [1] !
The thing I find hard to wrap my head around is that this complaint is given in a community that usually champions protocol-over-implementations and diversity of implementations. The people actually making a difference on the Linux desktop are damned if they do and they're damned if they don't.