Yes, it is a threat to send armed agents of the State to intervene. Is it something other than that?
I do not dispute that the partiers should have acted more considerately. But this whataboutism does not absolve the behavior of parent, unless you suggest that one inconsiderate act should beget a like response?
And you are correct: I think less of someone who is unwilling to negotiate their opposition. I appreciate your response and willingness to challenge.