> How can you know what is a slur and what is not when judging the way others communicate in their relationships? What if it’s a nickname from childhood?

How can you know what is an insult and what is not when judging the way others communicate in their relationships? What if it’s a nickname from childhood?

How can you know what is a threat and what is not when judging the way others communicate in their relationships? What if it’s a nickname from childhood?