Bitdefender and malwarebytes have also thrown notifications about suspicious connection being blocked when I went to popular websites (like google or flipboard.com) that should be safe. It feels like the attacker is triggering the notifications as a way to intimidate me, as if the attacker has access to my computer and phone and is violating my privacy and this is a way of reminding me of that.
Also Google looked really different a while ago like a 90s version of Google, and text on Google showed up in other languages, and asian (chinese, japanese, or similar) profiles show up on dating sites and apps often, these are not profiles of normal asian people. Thank you.
2. If you're a Google/Gmail/GSuite user I'd suggest that you log out of all sessions by following the instructions in https://support.google.com/mail/answer/8154?co=GENIE.Platfor...
3. I wouldn't count out Best Buy/micro center/whatever. Many of the computer support calls they encounter are around removing malware
i was where you are a few months ago. the world is a scary place when you dont know how it works. Shoot me an email, we should talk. This isnt a monolithic force, its mostly children with powertools. Dont paint it in broad strokes because the truth is way dumber than you may believe possible, that i can assure you.