"All sides" is not a valid argument when we're talking about a specific group that specifically planned and tried to overthrow the government.
This is not a "both sides are the same" world.
This is not a "both sides are the same" world.
Reverse the situation - Trump wins the election, but you believe that many of the votes cast for him were fraudulent. Would you consider yourself to be "overthrowing" the government by rooting out the fraud and putting in the person who you believe justly won?
I'm not saying they are correct about there being fraud. I don't think they are. But the assumption is they the know the fraud is a lie and they are just deliberately lying to provide an excuse to illegitimately take over the government. I don't think that's necessarily the case. I think even Trump actually believes there was fraud to extent that he actually won.
Which side are you on? Which side are your family, friends, and neighbors on? What will you do when you find someone on the other side?
Most importantly, what is making you to take one side or the other?