They all boil down to commanded torque greater that the system is capable of delivering. Fix your design. Be suspicious of software trying to accelerate too aggressively under load.
I have cut a lot of metal on a Tormach PCNC 1100 Series 3 machine, with steppers. NEVER had an issue. Correctly designed stepper systems DO NOT miss steps.
That said, servos systems typically are capable of greater accelerations for a motor of a give volume and current load, because of the closed-loop control. Use servos for speed, not because you are afraid of skipped steps from a stepper.