Happy Guys Finish Last, Says New Study on Sexual Attractiveness
sciencedaily.com
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- people may react differently to photos than they do to real people
- people may react differently in a lab than they do in a real life courting situation
- people may lie about their attractions for unfathomable reasons
- people may not even know what they are attracted to
- the people in the photos can't necessarily fake emotions convincingly
These kinds of issues confound most psychological experiments but you really can't dismiss them when it comes to sex.
1) An honest expression of joy 2) A manifestation of nervous energy
A confident guy in the presence of an attractive woman will do #1. A shy guy will do #2. #2 displays the guy thinks he isn't worthy. The sub-communication is neediness. #1 displays that the guy is comfortable around women like her. The sub-communication is contentment, abundance.
Women can tell the difference.
I once volunteered for a study on how the brain processes emotion in the voice in schizophrenic patients (I was in the control group... I hope!). While seventy bucks for half an hour's work sounds pretty good when you're a student, it turns out that lying in an incredibly loud MRI machine for half an hour while headphones play a nonstop series of bad actors enunciating the words "It's eight o'clock" while trying to sound "happy" vs "fearful" vs "angry" vs "neutral" is really hard and relatively unpleasant work. Anyway, the point of this story is that the actors on the recording obviously weren't really happy or fearful or angry about the fact that it's eight o'clock, so I always wondered whether my brain processed that obviously-fake emotion differently to real emotion. And who knows if that's what's going on here?
Besides, the guy in his "proud" pose is showing off some reasonably impressive arm muscles which are otherwise hidden under his baggy t-shirt -- no wonder he looks more attractive!