The Missing Piece Meets the Big O – “Have you ever tried?” asked the Big O
butwhatfor.substack.com
butwhatfor.substack.com
Often times we forget that the first step in getting what we want is making steps and effort to move toward it. I think you can read this like - "No one can love you until you love yourself" because of the missing pieces attempts to find a partner.
The other read is that you can trick yourself into thinking you are making progress by focusing on all these other things around you and looking for someone / something outside of yourself to make the progress for you. But, at the end of the day, you have to make the progress for you.