> would rather see it destroyed than become part of it?

Very very few people want to have the system destroyed. Especially if you don't push people out of the system, like banning these people in social networks.

Trump voters did not want the system destroyed. They believe the election was rigged.

There is enough evidence of election fraud or election abnormalities. Though I believe not enough to change the election outcome.

It should the job of democrats (and everybody) to investigate, convince, and speak transparently about all the issues, in particular, prosecute people responsible for problems, rather than repeating "orange man bad", and radicalise Trump supporters.