Everything will eventually be considered hate speech. Every idea is offensive to someone.
"Your users committed an act of insurrection against the current legitimate democratic government"
Please ban facebook now
Facebook doesn't use AWS, and at least attempts to moderate calls to violence.
If this is the bar, then it was met by a coup attempt organized on whatsapp in 2016. There's nothing whatabout about it.
But they are self hosted, so AWS isn't going to be banning them any time soon.
HN doesn't want anything. Or if it does, you—as a member of HN—want it, too. If you're going to grant an exception to yourself, grant it to others here, as well.
HN is a huge community of humans. Those that post things on what you perceive as arguing one position are probably not the same ones you're seeing arguing the opposite. And even if they are, humans are well known for inconsistency.
That's not to say that perhaps there's not a majority, but I don't think we can assess that without some real numbers. Do you have those? If so, what was your methodology?