> It is really absurd that instant messaging is not federated like email.
The joke is that it used to be. FB Messanger and Google Chat had XMPP hooks so you could talk to whatever other platform, Slack used to have an IRC integration, MSN/AIM/ICQ never tried too hard to get stop reverse-engineers from putting their protocols into all-in-one messengers... Then businesses realized the value of locking in users and becoming walled gardens.