NetworkX isn't a bad library, nor is it only suitable for "babies". Yeesh. Actual people work on this stuff, you know, and they may have different goals, requirements, etc than you. This whole post reeks of someone who's so in love with being a maverick speaking uncomfortable truths that they've lost sight of this human element.

If you're offended by (say) research papers that fail to break enough new ground to satisfy you, sorry about your luck, but again, not everyone's optimizing the same function as you. You'll probably do better bringing people around when you're not implying (or outright saying) their work is shit.