It's also worth noting that bullies (which is something the investor seems to be in spades) are famously unresponsive to anything but genuine fear and humiliation. It's a big part of what makes them such a scourge, since peaceful people of good will are so naturally reluctant to respond in kind. All the more reason to hire an experienced lawyer, since they're not only capable of making credible and effective threats, but can safely do so within the narrow, and highly technical constraints permitted by law.
If the OP is still interested in being diplomatic, he can honestly say that he and his investor have found themselves at a legal impasse that their contract did not clearly anticipate. For this reason, he's retained a lawyer to advise him on what's likely to be the most mutually beneficial resolution, and will be letting this individual handle the conversation from here.