CSN Stores - $300MM+ annual revenue/ bootstrapped
MailChimp - Approaching $100MM/ bootstrapped
Club Penguin - $350MM acquisition, heard they had a little angel money, but no VC
Ganz/Webkinz - Kind of a startup within a small manufacturing biz, but they have mid 9 figures in revenue.
SparkFun/iFixit - Both $20+MM in revenue with no outside investment.
Provocraft has $100MM+ in virtual good sales
Granted, most of these aren't household names in the tech world, but all thrive based on web tech. I'm sure there are others beyond the ones I know, but there seems to be a playbook that can get a company to $100MM+ without VC.
In closing, I agree with your thesis, and Sequoia's old homepage would back you up 100%, but do you think companies like the ones above are just outliers or are not successful enough?