Certainly I think octopus and squid, along with covids and some other groups, show that intelligence is rather easy to come by so long as it's adaptive. Human-level intelligence is probably only adaptive given other factors that preceded leaps in our intelligence. For example, I bet nascent (but theretofore unseen) altruism and culture emerged and created an ecological environment into which our intelligence could profitably expand, after which the process probably accelerated and became more dynamic.
The fact that they are solitary is a much, much bigger obstacle than the fact that they die quickly.
The gist is that because they have such (relative) short lives, their lessened need to be defensive allows them to be more curious.
Oh shit I hope not!
Spellcheck has eaten the R in corvids. Another reason to hate 2020.
No fire means no energy or metals which means no technology more advanced than the Stone age.
They're really terrifyingly smart.
Cooking and metallurgy are both pretty important, and we got them incrementally, starting from fire being pretty easy to do.
Moving back to the land-sea war, we know how to make bombs and stuff, so they better have something like steel and know how to come attack us on land and so on if there is any notion of it being a contest.
(Though one should put in the time to also read the novel of which this is a sequel, which is about intelligent spiders, and is also pretty nice.)
[1] https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Adrian_Tchaikovsky#Children_of...
Unlike fish eggs, octopus eggs generally take several weeks to hatch once fertilized. Going this long without food basically starves the brood mother to death (or makes it exceedingly unlikely that she will be able to recuperate on her own).
I realize you still could describe this as suicide with extra steps, per your comment.
Birds solve this problem by having the male bring food to the female.