you know, you can also do all those kinds of things as a kid non-cynically, and then go to those schools all the same
It's not hard to be an outlier, if you set your mind to it. It's a lot easier than playing the game at a sufficient level to be admitted.
I was an outlier, and now I'm raising my kid to be an outlier.
But yeah, there is a culture of corruption spanning the upper tier.