I don't think we will ever observe alien life as it's too hard. Other solar systems are too far away, let alone other galaxies. We can't even properly observe nearby planets such as Venus.
However, given the age of the universe, there is strong reason to believe that other species somewhere else have likely crossed these barriers but run into another set of constraints which we simply can’t comprehend yet. These could be physical, philosophical, or even metaphysical barriers which prevent contact.
I hoped that in my lifetime we would have made more progress but it may take a few more human lifetimes before we get there, barring a breakthrough which helps leap frog our current understanding.
The feasibility of interstellar space travel is an unknown unknown. We have so much more to understand about our universe and our world before we can even cast doubt on whether it's possible or not. When we don't even know what 85% of the universe consists of, much less lack a unified field theory, we just don't yet have the knowledge to make bold assertions on this topic.
Even Musk's 'Starship' is incorrectly named.
By analogy it's like pointing out that an off-road jeep is sufficient to get anywhere on Earth, even with only a 300 mile range, because jeeps can carry supplies and/or an extra tank of gas as its cargo instead of people, with staging outposts (gas & maintenance stations) setup and supplied every few hundred miles.
You can make the claim that it is your field, which makes it a simple appeal to authority. But that doesn't make your claim true. There are lots of people in lots of fields that make claims that turn out to be bogus and this - to me - seems to be one of those.
If you honestly believe that we have solved all the interesting problems in interstellar travel and it's 'a mere matter of engineering' then that's fine with me, you're going to have to live with me not believing you.
Best of luck, and - FWIW - I hope you succeed but I highly doubt that you will, the whole 'we are less than a century away from X' stuff is exactly why I say it is science fiction and not science, you can't possibly know the future to that degree.
It probably takes a long time for intelligent life (or intelligence in a form we are able to recognize, anyways) to evolve on any planet. If we don't see signs of it, it must be because the universe is still too young (and considering signal from a planet a million light years away won't arrive till as many years pass).
Millions of years from now, one will be able to scan the heavens and find signals of tens of thousands of far-off civilizations.
Maybe they won’t look like us. I have to constantly tell myself to deprogram myself the X files et al image of ‘aliens’.
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Is there intelligent, technological life in our galaxy? Maybe.
Have we been visited by aliens? Inconceivable.
1. I was making an allusion to Inigo Montoya from the Princess Bride.
2. If a person truly believes that then I think they suffer from the same lack of imagination as Vizzini.