So DOCSIS is hell.
GPON is ... depends. The technology is great, but some ISPs can and will ruin it because they're greedy and shortsighted. Someplaces you can get a bridge CPE (ONT) that does have remote access but doesn't allow configuration, someplaces the ONT itself is fine (i.e. HG8245 series for which too you can disable TR069 interface and CWMP and change the passwords - which I did), but someplaces you just get the "DOCSIS over fiber" experience, with hostile ONT in your home network the ISP uses to make your existence miserable.
Personally, DSL is fine for me. I am so used to low speeds (~20/2 Mbps) when I am in the village (since march due to COVID, working from home), I have started bonding [0] DSL and LTE for around 95/45 Mbps and that is fine for me.
So, I'd rather stay on tried-and-true, stable, low ping DSL, than muck around with DOCSIS and fear any rain or wind.
For GPON it depends on the ISP, but the technology does not dictate any remote management requirements except OMCI which is not concerned with "higher layer" configuration such as WiFi or router features.
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