eg the assault rifle has seen only one major change since the '40s (the switch to small caliber high velocity in the '60s), transonic passenger and cargo airplane airframe shapes have settled on a single general configuration, &c
The '60s in particular just happened to be a point when lots of aerospace stuff happened to reach maturity, along with our understanding of the common-case aerodynamics.
The Boeing 747-8 is 29% more fuel efficient than the 747-100 in absolute terms before you even start considering the extra space it has as a larger aircraft. Some of that is aerodynamic refinement (and they're limited by starting with the older airframe!) and some of that is newer engines. And the 747-8 is relatively poor compared with many newer airframe designs.
another likely inflexion point was the introduction of CADAM around the period
It’s almost easier to name foundational technologies that weren’t discovered by then than the reverse.
https://www.arl.army.mil/wp-content/uploads/2019/12/arl-baa-...
It was a spy plane...no asking needed, if you could fly over the USSR and bring that intel back in some hours your sold.
But yeah i miss Skunkwork too especially the A12/SR-71:
https://www.cia.gov/news-information/featured-story-archive/...
There have been 4 leaps during the industrial revolution. At the beginning the the new tech is just a toy, then it becomes useful and starts taking over previous/old tech, then it reaches a maturity point where improvements are very small/incremental:
1) Steam - 1800-1880s
2) Electricity and the Combustion Engine 1890 - 1940
3) Jet, rockets and Nuclear era 1941 - 1970
4) Digital Information 1970 - 2012-s
Now, AI/Green Tech/ or just stagnation? Who knows...