I see dead startups
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I think Paul Buchheit's advice is probably the best way to decide. He says to (paraphrasing) "find 100 people that love your product".
It's not enough for you, or a tiny number of people to say your thing is good. You need a sizable (but still very small) number of people to love your product.
It's kind of a "wisdom of the crowds" solution. You might be wrong, your friends might be wrong, but if 100 people love your product it's very likely that you're on to something.
How to break free of the delusion? Maybe by pondering the opportunity costs of not pursuing a new startup worth at least 2x (pick a reasonable concrete number) of your current one? Using real, achievable numbers might make it easier to take that leap of faith.
I think most dead startups suffer from "a bird in the hand is worth two in the bush" syndrome (sorry, had to toss in a metaphor of my own) -- knowing how difficult it was to get the "dead" startup off the ground, it's difficult to face starting over.
I was a cofounder of what I used to call "the most successful startup that could never make any money". We got press consistently, did some cool partnerships with big companies (always free), and were driving steadily away from any kind of a revenue model. My partner got stubborn and, frankly, arrogant about the business, despite its professional amateur status, and I had to finally leave. He could not be made to see the light, no matter what I or anyone else said. Now he runs it as a calling card to get himself speaking gigs at conferences.
After writing this down, I'm not sure there was anything I could have said to convince him to spend his time any other way. He's not a math person, so opportunity costs are lost on him. There was nothing I could do but let him man the boat alone and drift off into the night.
We have a (fairly well known) product, but with only 263 customers acquired over 2 years. It brings in about $6,500 per month. The income does not increase much from month to month, but seems relative stable. We are two people working on this and the small income reduces this to more or less a hobby project.
So to keep with the analogy, I guess you could call us a zombie startup.
I realize that there are to few data points, but I would love to learn if others have been in the same situation and what they have done.
I quickly went over to my "bookshelves" and dusted off some ancient collections of business knowledge, and it seems that, prior to the current internet-decade, the classical advice was to simply continue operating, looking for slow, steady growth, and enjoy having your own "business" rather than working for someone else. Clearly, this sort of advice isn't valid anymore; if a startup doesn't lead to a $100 million dollar exit in 3 years, then it has failed and just doesn't know it yet. I think most startups would advise you to abandon your customers and build a social network, as those seem to have good odds these days of leading to success ($100m in 3 years).
(...with tongue firmly in cheek. :-) )
And I fell for it. Phooey. Guess this means I should get to work this morning.
I suppose we could extend this experience to startups. Everyone who hears the constant "bubble" talk, and knows about the .com crash would probably be wary of being dead already.
[edit: Serves me right for trying to constructively engage a tortured analogy]
The fact is that these "twists" are not particularly surprising after everyone talks about them all the time. If you are shocked by the possibility of having a dud business, then you are a fool.
And no, I wasn't bragging about figuring out the plot. I was pointing out that a "twist" loses effectiveness, if everyone knows that it exists, and is looking for it.