I appreciate your larger argument but this statement is ironic in light of your previous paragraph :/.
IME (with time as an Apple software engineer) the Apple subculture _is_ a deeply troubling subculture. Take the iPhone for example: small, insignificant iterations that demand a premium. Consider the litany of software flaws that line BigSur and Catalina? What is the end consumer truly gaining with this new iteration? Would you respond "product experience"? Yet Apple appears to be doing well YoY with their returns on these products.
I'm particularly fond of your phrasing though: "cargo cult". Again, ironically applicable to Apple.