"You are more likely to be violently attacked working at a convenience store than being a cop."
You are absolutely more likely to be shot at while serving a warrant, than working in a convenience store.
"Citizens that choose to carry a weapon for self-defense cannot point their weapon a people just in case"
Citizens are not police officers, entrusted to carry out the law and who must actively confront danger, moreover, police are trained to do so.
"Then this is a failure of their training or a failure of the individual police."
This is wrong to the extent that it's very rational for police to at least have weapons drawn when individuals are refusing to comply with the warrant etc.. 'Weapons drawn' is a very simple tactic, which makes them easy to use if necessary. It is not in and of itself particularly dangerous.
"First, it is not too dangerous. "
Yes it is. [1] (from the AP, not Fox News) Have a little Google yourself.
" Second, if it is, then pick a new line of work"
This is a shameful remark, exemplary of the general tone here. "If you don't want to get COVID and die - quit being a nurse - now go ahead and work without a mask!". It's absurd (and basically offensive) to suggest that public servants shouldn't have the right to take appropriate steps to defend themselves, or even have to put themselves in a position of danger, let alone harassment in the first place.
Even African American Police officers are called the n-word and put up with all sorts of horrible abuses (just search 'police' on TikTok) which should definitely be illegal: you cannot go into the DMV or IRS (or Wallmart!) and start harassing people - the same should apply to police.
If the woman in question was concerned for the safety of her children, she would have simply opened the door and 'used her words'.
If in fact, the Gov. is illegally intimidating her, and she's done no wrong, well then I hope the judge recognizes that.
Finally, police reform is not going to come form the plebes on social media, it's going to have to be done thoughtfully, by them, led probably by ex-police officers who have first-hand experience.
[1] https://apnews.com/article/30fd23e66f21446b90d2b8cb0135ae03