Applying the same thinking that got us into this situation won't get us out of it.
then look down on other people who don't
That's in your mind, not mine.
Technology is more likely to solve the problem than reducing emissions by a certain percentage, which is guaranteed to be insufficient. Transatlantic flights are certainly a hard problem, but why should it be impossible? Either using hydrogen, synthetic fuels and/or by offsetting emissions with carbon capturing.
Which leaves us in the situation that if you get on a plane to cross the Atlantic today you will add another ton of CO2 to the atmosphere.
Carrying on as we are right now is like spending next years pay rise before you have got the promotion, it will bankrupt us.
Back when every river in Europe was full of human shit, the air was full of smog and pretty much the entire continent was devoid of timber people were saying the exact same sort of "technology will never solve this, we need to make sacrifices" crap.
I could go on but "making sacrifices" does not work at scale because when you apply that one approach to more than one problem you wind up sacrificing so many things that the standard of living is driven back by hundreds of years.
Technology created this problem, applying the same thinking that got us into this situation won't get us out of it. All this wishful thinking crap won't get us anywhere.
You don't need to drive your standard of living back hundreds of years although if we don't get a handle on climate change that will happen.
Or to put in another way, is a new SUV worse than an Opel Corsa 1999 regarding CO2 emission?