Your “perfectly good computer” is in fact not yours (it has DRM so you are not the user, you are renting it), and it’s not perfectly good if it can’t run the software you want.
[1] This let’s you get away with just one remote including for powering on/off
What made me give up on the search for alternative software is that there doesn't even seem to be a place in which any manufacturer's models are even listed, much less anything resembling a community.
Far easier just to not connect the TV to the internet and use a third party solution like nVidia Shield instead. Fortunately pretty much no TVs will try to connect via open WiFi or 4G at the moment, though it is definitely coming.
Anyone who undertakes your proposal is going to have problems staying ahead of any jailbreaking mitigations when the companies motivation for security is maintaining relationships with content service providers.
Not sure how relevant or up-to-date their support is, but at least there is _something_ :)
https://github.com/tavinus/opkg-upgrade is one.
As it notes, the reasons you don't want updates on auto-pilot are those config differences, and limited space available on routers.