This is a good article which answers most of your doubts:
https://www.motorbiscuit.com/are-electric-cars-worse-for-the...
Spoiler alert: EV pollutes less than ICE
https://www.motorbiscuit.com/are-electric-cars-worse-for-the...
Spoiler alert: EV pollutes less than ICE
I'm not wholly informed here, but just by using common sense, I can only imagine we're talking fractions of a percent for brake pad and tyre pollution, so I wouldn't pick that hill to die on personally.