Ask HN: I'm at a crossroads, any input is appreciated

Real estate is not safe. It is just as hard as starting your own company because it is starting your own company. To be successful you will need to sleep, eat and breathe it.

If you have no experience and no equivalent to a portfolio of personal projects, I'm not sure why anyone would hire you to do marketing.

Paul Graham says the key factor he is looking for is determination - you have had one "failure" and you are letting that completely derail you.

You can be a semi competent programmer that people will pay you money for in 3-6 months if you focus on a single area of expertise. Build a portfolio of personal projects ( should be reasonably quick to do). Those personal projects can be the minimum viable product for a potential startup but can also prove your ability to build things to get contract jobs to pay the bills.

You aren't good at business, you're not getting internships and you're just learning to program. Stay in school.

..Stay in school and use your free time to find out what you really want and how to get it.

My advice to you is as follows.

Make the decision now, at this stage in your life/career, whether you want to be a developer or not - and stick to the plan that follows.

If you do, then you need to work hard to obtain the level of proficiency needed to cut it in startup world (the "it takes 1000 hours to become a master' quote comes to mind here). I'm not sure if that is the 'going back to school' aspect you are considering but there a numerous ways to learn to be a good developer. It also means that most of your business school teaching - while still useful - will go unused as a dev. I'm not sure how much debt you have from school but is it worth wasting that education at this point?

Or decide that you don't want to be a developer and stop trying to be one. If you move to SF/Silicon Valley you won't hack it trying to be a "part-dev/part-business-{blah}".

If you are not sure what you want to do then I'd suggest coming out here and working for a funded startup or BigCo to get some stable salary and also build up your contact network (business or marketing out here requires a strong contact network). If you want to start another startup you will need a technical co-founder and so this also gives you time to meet such folks.

Hope this is useful.

If I decided to just stick to business, could I realistically get a job at a startup without a finished business degree?

I don't think anyone could give you a firm yes/no on that.

What is your major? Have you done anything that sets you out from the crowd (ran a successful startup already, etc).

To be honest, the answer might be "stay in school and complete your studies". I myself don't have a degree but then I have a technical background.

You don't need a business degree to get a job at a startup. You need to be able to show that you've been able to recruit users or launch something successfully. The best way to do this is on the streets, whether in your own company or with someone else.

Screw real estate. I had a friend with the same plan and he didn't even pass the test. I know a lot of Realtors that quit because the money wasn't good enough.

Why not move to the bay area, join some hacker groups/meetups, and work to support yourself while you pick up the skills of either biz dev or programming.

I'm 32 with a wife and 3 kids, a mortgage, and a shitload of debt. You don't realize how lucky you are to be 20 and agile.

I have a friend that lives in SF and supports himself with freelance WordPress development and writing for major blogs. In his spare time he works his true passion, and it's working. I imagine that you could do the same.

Understanding that New York City is anathema to anyone north of I–84, still, you might consider spending some time in NYC before moving cross–country.

Join nextny (http://nextny.org/) or the NY Tech Meetup (http://nytm.org).

Upstate NY is big. What part? What school are you going back to, if you don't mind me asking? There are a number of very good colleges up there in the form of RIT, U of R, Syracuse U, a ton of SUNY's[1] and others.

Paychex and Kodak were founded in the Rochester area, for example. So its not like you're guaranteed to be in a desolate rural void just because you're in upstate NY.

What would you focus on if you were to go back (note: not what would you major in, but, what would you spend your time doing?)

1. As someone from Long Island, Albany, Binghamton and Buffalo are the ones that always spring to my mind when I think SUNY. But, others are still good -- I did't go to either of those three and got a (what I feel is) a pretty good education.

Zev,

I attend SUNY Institute of Technology in Utica. It's not that I don't think there's entrepreneurship going on upstate, I just don't think there's anything going on with internet startups.

If I go back I'm going to split my time between classes, working and launching another startup. I don't have any friends who could be a tech co-founder so I think I'm just going to focus on making money to pay rent and everything left over is for hiring a freelancer.

Real Estate doesn't look so great from my seat http://www.businessinsider.com/gary-shilling-sell-your-house...

Id say, at least find a like-minded network online, such as linkedin groups etc...(shameless self promotion http://www.linkedin.com/in/blwallace)

My friend from Illinois keeps quoting the Beverly Hillbillies theme song "Calafornie is the place ye wanna be" this week he is pitching to angels and VCs in LA after a week pitching in SanFran. Plus, coming from a midwesterner, California is a different planet(in a very good way).

Why don't you move to SF for the summer. You could do something like a summer program at Stanford

http://www.summer.stanford.edu/programs/program/undergraduat...

Maybe you can even swing transferring to something like deanza community college for the spring.

Basically, you'd be taking almost no risk vs staying in school where you are at, plus you can do the startup thing.

I never really understood the point of going into real estate if you're not interested in it. Its not like money falls from the sky right off the bat in that industry.

First of all feel good, having many options and opportunities at a young age is a considerable achievement.

Secondly, we're looking for summer interns who understand programming but will focus on connecting with and marketing to other developers. If you're self-directed then you can do it from anywhere in the world. We may also be opening a live/work pad in SF soon so that may be an option too.

email me at ohadpr at gmail dot com

You mentioned that you don't have any interest in real estate, which should not even be part of your plans (despite the fact that it may rake you in some dough for the time being).

I think you should go with option 1, as this favors more of what you wanted to be doing. I believe more chance of success lies in doing what you are passionate about.

Just my 2 cents.

Life is too short to be spent on safe options. Take the risk, keep minimum baggage, find technical cofounders and keep trying...

You are only 20. Either option will work. I would have chosen #1, but I am not you.