I have yet to see recent news of them bombing other countries, kidnapping people from around the world and destabilising regions around the world.
In truth, I'd rather have neither of them bullying others but if I had to choose, I think the less violent bully is a better choice.
Canada: https://www.theglobeandmail.com/politics/article-china-ramps...
same in Australia https://www.abc.net.au/news/2019-08-19/fake-chinese-police-c...
kidnapping abroad (Thailand): https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Gui_Minhai
killing abroad (Indonesia): https://www.bbc.com/news/stories-45976946
(Australia) https://www.abc.net.au/news/2019-11-25/asio-says-its-taking-...
Right now, there's practically no pushback on crippling U.S. sanctions against Iran or Venezuela for example.