I love solving the odd chess problem here and there, and I whole-heatedly recommend lichess.org for that. The website and app are both great and the problem database is huge and varied. All free, too.
I love solving the odd chess problem here and there, and I whole-heatedly recommend lichess.org for that. The website and app are both great and the problem database is huge and varied. All free, too.
Why? Even full-employed Americans spend 4 hours per day on average on leisure and sport. (https://www.bls.gov/charts/american-time-use/activity-by-emp...)
I also play chess but I don't think of chess as time to unwind. It's definitely fun, but requires a lot of focus and I have to stop playing a few hours before bed so I can actually unwind.
I've found it one of the best outlets from work quite frankly, to have another committed side interest that requires dedication and commitment. You should try it :-)
After I graduated and got a programming job, I found that my hobbies took a big hit, as they all mostly required similar mental focus as work. So these days I generally do a lot less mentally taxing things. Sure I'll have bursts of creativity, but most days my brain is spent when I'm done at work and I'll go for a bike ride or watch a movie.
Playing a sport is completely different from playing chess, the physicality of a sport is at least different type of challenge.
So for me, intellectual hobbies correlate with when project in work are boring or unmotivating (there are such periods).
Many ordinary people spend more time every day watching TV.
It is just not the same. You play chess at your mental prime-time basically, to challenge and tire the brain. You watch tv/youtube to get rest.
It's quite draining, and nothing like watching TV.
Are you literally scheduling everything you do? Are you sleeping less than 6 hours? Obviously, there's probably 2 hours per day in small intervals where I'm not maximizing my day.
Because of this, I recently picked up guitar, and this is nice for the random periods I'm free, because I feel like picking it up 4 or 5 times a day for 5-10 minutes still allows me to make a lot of progress, be creative, and learn a lot about (and appreciate) music.
Chess is also something you could do this with, but I feel like at that time scale it would be harder and less rewarding, and this is still about 1/4th of the two hours mentioned.
Edit:
I probably spend 30 minutes on HN per day, which is mostly a waste. But this is also in small intervals.
The downside is of course that sometimes the other important things are hard to maintain. But this is how you do it.
Admittedly, level of challenge in games can vary tremendously. I always like to have one on rotation that is difficult.
Is this how far we've regressed? I'm sure most humans through history have had more free time than you.
Two hours a day, every day, is a lot of time. I barely watch television and still, if you asked me to find two more hours every day I'd tell you that you were crazy.
I already have hobbies. I relax. I spend time with my partner. I sleep, I cook, I work, I walk.
I do not find myself with two hours that I don't know what to do with, and I'd challenge you to find someone that does.
Before kids? Sure. After the kids are old enough to basically be on cruise control? Likely. But now? Not even close.