Far more important than a charging station network is investment in on-street charging for people who don't have access to a garage.
Charging at home is far more important than charging on the road.
In any case, a grid upgrade will not be required. The "grid overload" story is fossil fuel industry propaganda. You can find the details here: https://www.virta.global/blog/myth-buster-electric-vehicles-...
...but the salient point is that if 80% of all passenger cars become electric, this would lead to a total increase of 10-15% in electricity consumption. (Far, far from the "order of magnitude" claim.)
And even this ignores the vehicle-to-grid features of modern EVs, which can actually put power back into the grid during periods of high demand.