I've iterated on the style of my own development over time, and I hadn't really stepped back to look at where I was now for a while. Interestingly enough, I find that I've "worked around" both of the things you mentioned in one way or another.
I use EF, but generally only for migrations, and use Dapper for all the actual access. This avoids a lot of the headache I've had in the past with EF tracking, lazy loading, and foreign keys. I also avoid using views for anything, even at work where I can guarantee with many 9's worth of certainty that I will always be using MSSQL. Part of this is because EF doesn't support it for Code-First, but part of it is also generally trying to be proactive rather than reactive and pre-generate anything I'd be using a view for. Being able to more easily switch providers and move to a different RDBMS is just a "perk" that I'll likely never take advantage of.
I despise the Microsoft DI system. I won't bother going into details, it just doesn't seem to work "right" (that is, the way I want or expect it to). On the other hand, I've used Autofac for years and just seem to "get" it, so I sometimes go to relatively great lengths to use it, even when the Microsoft version would have been a lot easier to get up and running.