Server noise aversion isn't only a female thing. I'm male, and replace my home server fans with blessedly quiet Noctuas, and the 24/7 servers are usually passively-cooled Atoms, or running on repurposed OpenWrt SOHO routers.
BTW, although severs-at-home techies seem to be disproportionately male right now, maybe it doesn't hurt to mention that servers are equal-opportunity. For example, I know at least a few women with servers at home. One even used to have one of the fridge-sized Cray supercomputers at home, just because. Another one, when I saw a K8s-at-home post a few days ago, she was the first person who came to mind to send it to, since she's the most enthusiastic, besides being a recognized technical expert on some related enterprise architecture. It feels a bit silly to articulate examples, but seems that people (and kids, especially), subconsciously pick up on signals about what we are supposed to do, and those signals can be misleading.