MMT doesn't depend on “reserve currency status”, it depends on having use of fiat currency.
> Reserve currency status does afford increased deficit-spending capacity.
The key point of MMT isn't that fiscal balance (deficit v surplus) doesn't inherently matter as much because there are conditions (whether “reserve currency status” that you've focussed on it something else) that Trump it for the countries of concern, it's that fiscal balance is ultimately an illusion based on a metaphor (the fisc, a finite purse filled by revenue and depleted by spending) that simply fails to reflect reality for a country whose budget operates in its own fiat currency, and that the financial constraints on such a country have to do with monetary effects of decisions, not fiscal balance.
> If a country runs up large deficits in the name of its reserve currency it affects others’ inclinations to hold the currency in reserve.
Sure, the sum effect of the governments decision making on demand for the currency, and those value of the currency, (the kind of reserve considerations you discuss here are an aspect of this, not categorically special) is exactly the kind of monetary consideration that MMT holds is a real constraint. But fiscal balance itself isn't a useful yardstick for that.
> Piloting federal fiscal policy on MMT is akin to steering the plane to FL 100 and keeping an eye out for a stall.
No, it's more like guiding nap-of-the-earth flight with a radar altimeter rather than a barometric altimeter calibrated to the long-term average global pressure at sea level. Monetary effects are the actual hard constraints, fiscal balance is a distant, murky proxy with an uncertain and time-and-conditions-variable relation to the actual constraint that obfuscates rather than clarifies.