The performance aspect (aside from WebAssembly, where it has few contenders) is something that can be partially matched by other technologies.
By comparsion, developing for the web in Crystal is quite enjoyable. The language has great ergonomics (I'd say even better than Ruby). The web ecosystem might not be mature but it's blooming and it has you covered in the main areas. Most importantly, if you're missing something, it's very easy to build it yourself. The standard library contains a lot of web goodies, including a very decent HTTP client, a server, easy to use and fast JSON and XML parsers, an OAuth2 client (yes!). The language feels like it was built for the web, which I can't say about Rust.
In the end, what matters is your use case and the trade-offs you are willing to make (development speed vs. performance vs. safety guarantees). If I would have to build a load balancer, I might consider Rust. For a normal web app, I'd personally go with something like Crystal, Ruby, Python, Node.