If you think the ACLU has steered clear of controversy historically, you are not very familiar with their history.
> it really has nothing to do with civil liberties
How so? It is about someone's right to exist as themselves without discrimination and be treated equally to others. The ACLU has been involved in LGBT rights since at least the 70s.
What do you think the ACLU did in the 60s? Not fight segregation where it was legal?
Claiming the right of not being offended by speech, to me, is a litmus test for an anti-civil-rights person/organization. Sure, if someone chooses to call everyone "you pitiful worm" it's their right to not associate with the caller, but they have no right whatsoever, and certainly not any kind of civil right, to be called anything else.
Also your example is unrealistic and distorted - it’s not a useful hypothetical because no one is asking anyone to call them something insulting like that as their public form of address.
The fact that the example is an insult makes it different from “they/them”
What it is, though, even if it's the right thing to recommend, is partisan.
Is identifying someone by a racial slur a civil-rights issue?
Obviously it's not a black-and-white issue, and is complex, but yeah, fundamentally calling someone something they don't want to be called (and I don't mean "your hair is blue / don't tell me my hair is blue") can be a civil rights issue.
Words define our selves. There's a reason jargon is such a big deal in the corporate world - words have power.
Consider this - if it wasn't a civil rights issue, would there be so much discomfort and/or backlash around it? Would it even be a big deal at all if it didn't matter?
Again, I'm not saying it's straightforward - it's not.
But a quick google search says civil rights are "the rights of citizens to political and social freedom and equality."
So that's pretty complex and broad in and of itself.
There are also tons of issues that are not civil rights that have lots of backlash/noise around them (like healthcare).
In fact, in this case enforcement of any kind (outside of the private contract-based context like the office) would be quite obviously anti-civil-rights, which is a bummer with civil rights - sometimes, they inconvenience other people. Remember that being right and being wrong feels the same way. There are tons of people who would be very offended at you for all kinds of bogus reasons, like that you don't go to church, or are friendly with gay people, or whatever.
So yeah, if ACLU is about civil rights, it should focus on those. If it's going to pontificate that it's good to use certain pronouns, of for everyone to go to church, or whatever, then I'll take my money somewhere else :)
It's the same principle as being a non-religious organization. If the ACLU went around telling people that accepting Jesus as your lord and savior is the most important liberty, I suspect you'd agree that's very strange - even though many devout Christians do hold that position and think it's important.
My belief system makes white supremacy not some other, legitimate belief I oppose, but one that is beyond the pale because it threatens the core of my belief system (universal human rights and equality).
Since the (current) Republican Party is running on white supremacy ...
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If nothing else the fact that you don’t seem to recognize the desire to build a huge wall as one big red authoritarian flag is concerning.
It’s like going on a date with someone who says he’s a nice guy but treats the waitress like shit.
And it’s not only Border Walls it’s Border Patrol / ICE. Which has literally been putting children in cages.
Plus as another poster said it’s not clear that the administration was building this wall in a legal fashion.