Ask HN: What are good Jira-like tools for life use?

I'm looking for recommendations on jira-like tools for personal/life use. I really like the idea of organizing my daily/long-term tasks in an "issue" fashion and possibly create "epics" and the like.

It may also be useful to dump random thoughts on an issue for later expansion and review. Like I'm starting a side project or learning a new language or whatever and so I'd dump stuff on the relevant issue/epic.

Bonus points for self-hosted.

EDIT: also useful to track hobbies and repair stuff. I'm into woodworking, electronics and mechanical repairs so having every task organized may free some brain cycles to do better work.