If I'm only mildly interested, the comments often provide a summary and then I decide if I RTFA.
Certain titles or domains are insta-RTFA without looking at the comments.
Sometimes it is nice to know the controversial aspects by reading the comments, so I can be more careful reading certain passages.
Sometimes I read neither but the article is still on the front page the next day with a thousand upvotes. Then I read it.
NOT:
Hard work -> success -> happiness
RATHER:
Happiness -> best work -> success
My tentative explanation for this is that many people luck themselves into “success” and then fight tooth and nail to keep it.
To that point there are definitely construction workers and nurses who hate their jobs and actively despise but still make the world a better place, are they successful? I believe your internal mental state will reflect and impact upon those around you and the things you are significant for. Does being an unhappy boss who gets great results make you not successful. The core issue lies in definitions. We could dream up a definition of success that could define any number of contradictory traits. That is for you to decide and society at large to gently guide.
However, these types of people might not be happy in the end. For example, I remember Elon Musk saying "you wouldn't want my life."
The universe is complex, and ice really don’t have it all figured out, but acknowledging that complexity will prevent a lot of theory induced blindness!
The state of a person's life circumstances, which can change, has a huge effect on mental capability.
Screens (TV): I now avoid any kind of TV series that is not already finished. No time for a show that is eventually a bad one after season 1. (a variant of the GoT syndroma. But you could call it XFiles syndroma too, if you are old enough :)
Screens (games): But the most dramatic change, and the most unexpected one, is that I have started playing FPS games again. It has increased a lot my attention and "good stress" level.
Also, I have started learning piano. Passed the first 2 years and things are getting much better now.
In the end, I suppose that I am no longer able to survive the information deluge that Internet brings. So I now focus on a few things that I consider important, and I leave the rest out of my attention.
PS: oh and let me add that i now learn new tech things through books (from Manning and O'Reilly) instead of loosing my time reading blog posts. Sounds so basic that you may laugh at that, but it made my learning process much more straightforward. (once again, I was loosing myself in the information deluge of the internet).
In any case, that is my perception of it, not necessarily true/scientifically accurate.
It comes off the inspiration from my First Big Personal Project: https://adequate.life