> Then we have this whole dating thing entirely owned by one media hegemon.
Who'd that be? Not familiar with dating apps' company histories. I tried them but I'm experiencing much more success with old-fashioned dating. Tech hasn't disrupted dating for the majority of people, I think. [1]
[1] Because I know quite a few people that don't get any success out of it either, while they do get some success with old-fashioned dating.