Eating a fruit is not the same as drinking the equivalent amount of fruit juice along with some fiber for the same fructose load, because when eating a fruit the fact that the sugars are bound up in the fibers and must be broken down acts as a rate control.
It's a dose issue, but dose is both volume and absorption rate, and the absorption rate of fructose from free sugar is very fast, as it is not rate-regulated in the liver like glucose metabolism. This means it doesn't require as much refined sugar compared to sugar from fruit in order for your liver to spend some time with a dangerous fructose load;
-Refined- sugars are -especially- problematic, because of the absorption pattern. Simply combining free sugar with supplemental fiber mitigates some of the metabolic issues, but doesn't alleviate the problem.
If you watch Lustig he -does- say the fruit is fine, for this reason.
Whenever we find the chemical in a particular plant that is the one we like the most (and in rats, it's been shown that sugar&cocaine addicted rats prefer their sugar hit to their cocaine hit), extract it, and crystalize it, it's not surprising that it may be problematic.