The worst thing you can do here is to generalize.
Getting back to a "manageable" state would be ideal however future (and even perhaps far more minor) trauma may prove to be a significant barrier and potentially trigger relapses resulting in quite a vicious cycle.
Certainly a very complex thing to explain to people and carries a lot of stigma.
Ever since this initial awareness and diagnosis, I have stepped back from a lot of people, and many stepped away from me. I was left in a void where I had basically I social interaction.
While it was extremely depressing I have the feeling, at least in my case, that less communication can help to find a manageable state. Today it’s easier for me to manage, although still not perfect. I declined any medical treatment except for one dose of Haloperidol which I agreed to after I had freaked out and the police had to tie me down and send me to psychiatry. (As it happened I accidentally ran into a drug handover in the midst of my mania, I was afraid to die and started losing it completely)
Nobody really understands the hurricane of feelings one is going through, it doesn’t really make sense to try and explain it to people.
It can be done but it requires finding the points in a person's experience that mirror my own to some degree. Building on that, you can paint a picture they can understand.
I like the example of telling a person they need to keep eight words in their head all day long with no notes. Then they'll be quizzed about those words randomly throughout the day. If they fail, they have to sit quietly in a chair for the next hour.
Then I ask them how pissed off they'd be if they were interrupted in the middle of a task by me asking them to list the words in reverse alphabetical order by the fifth letter. Repeat several times an hour with different sorting and filtering criteria.
I also happen to have experimented with lots of psychedelics in the prior years and I’m not gonna deny that this may have intensified the symptoms. Mania felt like an acid flashback.
All this sudden energy and creativity, but also the scatteredness (not sure this is a word). It was too much to handle.
At the time I was programming up to 10h per day. I could not remember names of people I met the day before, also I had blackouts. My brain was not able to process. With your experiment I would have failed miserably because sitting still for an hour was not manageable.
I don't know about other bipolar people but I'm tired of being told it's my fault I'm bipolar.
The problem with "bipolar disorder is caused by diet" is that it's wrong. There's no evidence of it, plenty pointing in other directions, it's just a non-starter.
Which sucks, because if bipolar was caused by, I dunno, seed oils, great news! Just don't eat seed oils!
And if someone goes to the doctor and says "I'm bloated and gassy all the time and I feel terrible" and the doctor says "yeah you're lactose intolerant, avoid dairy and take these pills when you eat it", that's not blaming the person either.
I'm sure that there are people in your life who blame you for being the way that you are. I don't see this as a case of that. They probably read some woo-woo nutritional site with bad advice, and thought they were helping.
As part of my experience coming to terms with bp2, I did a family history and found out that almost everyone in my father's (high-functioning and accomplished) family had been institutionalized.