The killer feature for me was the query profiler - you can see WHY a query is taking a long time and optimise it - BigQuery just felt like Google were brute forcing the performance, and then charging you accordingly.
When the project I was on switched, the micro-clusters (and the ability to recluster a table) as well as the MERGE semantics beat BigQuery hands down - although those features my be out of beta now (but I've moved on to a new gig).
Also, BQ does explain the query plan to some extent: https://cloud.google.com/bigquery/query-plan-explanation. Not quite at the level of a "regular" SQL DB, but it does give you some info to work with when optimizing queries. If you haven't used it in a while I'd give it another try.
What they have now strikes me as an even better solution to the problem of bankrupting someone with a query IMO. Not sure how pricing compares to redshift et al, but pricing is the easiest thing for Google to change.
If you need to read a terabyte of data to answer your query then more slots only gets it done faster.
Wondering if this is a somewhat new feature in BQ since you used it, or if there's still a feature gap here (e.g. see https://cloud.google.com/blog/products/gcp/performing-large-...).