I used to live in an apartment with a landlord-installed $200 cheapie dishwashers that never worked.
Then I moved to an apartment without a dishwasher, so I bought a $500 one that I could plug into the sink. Worked much better.
After that apartment, I moved into one that had the same dishwasher that I bought, but installed. Worked great! Then I moved into another apartment with a cheapie dishwasher that was so loud I'd only run it when I left.
Anyway, the lesson is that you need to be a savvy consumer... And skip the cheapest models!
New toilets are awful.. just terrible.
New models can be good!
https://www.nytimes.com/wirecutter/reviews/the-best-dishwash...
They have otherwise nearly identical models with physical buttons. If I were buying it over again, I would definitely get one of those.
But the Ikea dishwasher we bought, it was loud but it worked
I lived in a studio apartment with this kind of dishwasher for five years.
I refused to run it since it was so obnoxious.
Now I just treat the dishwasher as a drying rack. Works great.
I'm not sure that's a good idea.
I had a dishwasher that had the failure described in the article linked below. The electronics circuitry (top of door) caught fire. Opening the door didn't stop the smoke, and also caused water to spew uncontrollably into the kitchen.
Fortunately I made a quick dash out to the garage and turned off the breaker so there was no damage to the kitchen.
But if I wasn't home .... what would have happened? If we were all sleeping upstairs while the fire was downstairs .... what would have happened?
https://www.consumerreports.org/dishwashers/whirlpool-settle...
When my old one failed to drain and filled up, I was amazed at how much water came out of it when I shimmy'd it to the back door and released the kraken over the back garden. It was like a tsunami.
1: https://www.consumerreports.org/dishwashers/energy-efficient...
0. use aerating faucet head to increase spread of water.
1. Short splash of cold water to remove stuck-on food, letting it sit if needed.
2. Wash with detergent on wet sponge, no added water.
3. Rinse with cold water, low water volume, with stacked dishes below faucet so that water from the rinse is rinsing dishes below as well.
I've never measured how much water is used, but I would think that it's fairly competitive against a dishwasher.
That's like just over a minute of the tap being on full blast for an aerated tap.
I am sure you could compete with that if you really tried, but from what I've seen a lot of people simply leave the tap on for the majority of the time they are washing the dishes.
Also, an additional difference between handwashing and using a dishwasher is the environmental impact of the manufacturing of the dishwasher, if the main concern is the environment. If the main reason is reducing work, then the dishwasher comes out ahead.
Finally, there has been very few times where it has been necessary for me to use hot water instead of cold. Unless I had burned the food, almost everything will come off after a good soak and scrub, even in cold water.
I have an unusual interest in this topic. I grew up in the UK, and that's just how people do the dishes. Or at least, the people in my orbit. So when I see that on TV, it's completely normal.
But, I now live in Mexico and everybody uses some variation of your method (again, everybody with a "people I've observed washing the dishes" qualifier). I find it completely bizarre.