What if I knew I'd die in 35 days?
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2. This list shows that the author is very young... On my list there would be almost only one item despite I am a passionate programmer/hacker/creator in my 35-year-expected-lifetime-remaining mode: spend the time with my FAMILY (I have two small children).
Me? I would definitely not live the same way.
so maybe start now?
I don't want to do that if (as I hope) I have many years left.
But, he is single, doesn't have kids, and has done the travel, nightclubs, sex with many women thing, so using that experience.
If one thinks about it, none of us know the final day, we just live like it's far away in never never land. In a previous career, I worked in a level one trauma ER, and in four years, watched hundreds, if not close to a thousand, people die. Makes one think. None of those people woke up that morning, got ready for work, and got in their cars thinking this'd be their last day.
So that thought went into this as well. It was an off the head list, more of how I would live, and more importantly, how I should live whether I have 35 days or 70 years left.
I'm sure if I was to do the exercise next year, there'd be new items, some from current list might go. But that's the beauty of life. We grow, we change, we evolve.
It is a good exercise for anyone to do, regardless of age and impending birthdays. I highly recommend it.
I disagree, nightclubs can be awesome when approached with the right mindset. Chaos, total cacophony and the total freedom to make a complete fool of yourself and others without anyone caring one bit even 10 minutes from now. It's all just so liberating and awesome, the kind of freedom one can rarely get anymore.
A good alternative is to take a car and race it down the freeway as fast as it would go, but that's slightly more dangerous and quite a bit more illegal.
In general what I think his list is missing terribly is letting go. Everyone, about to die or not, should have a few hours a week where they can just completely let go and get in touch with their primal self.
You are free to live every day like that, and you would be much happier.
But those who would not want to be around when your having fun are probably the same people you would not around you at work. That's not exactly right, but there's a hint of truth in it.
Problem is people in general have a hard time grasping that just because you do something in situation X, it doesn't necessarily reflect poorly on your character. Take a look at all the "Guy posts drunk pic on FB. Guy loses job" fiascos.