Egypt escaped their fate narrowly just because the military took control.
Ugh, can we not be against both wanton foreign intervention and backing military juntas?
You can be against whatever you wish. Real world takes precedence.
Once you cry havoc and unleash the dogs of war all bets are off.
The us has had successful state building with Germany Japan and South Korea and totally failed with Iraq, Afghanistan and Iran.
And the whole Latin America is... complicated.
In hindsight the proper solutions are aplenty, but so far how to intervene or whether is a cointoss for the outcome.
I suppose you mean the bombed civilians are in Islamic countries rather than the apathy. FWIW, I first thought you meant the latter.
US foreign policy is not motivated by an empathetic response to address "bombings, massacres, civil wars". That's only relevant in the calculus of managing the public narrative.
Empires don't enter military conflicts to save or better lives. They do it to control resources and counter regional or global imperial competitors.