Wow there's a lot of childish homophobia coming out in the comments here. I (naively?) thought that HN would be better than that for some reason?
Which subgroups/tendencies show up in the comments is therefore more a question of the particular thread: the title, the topic, and the early comments. If it seems like "HN would be better than $X", that's only because we mostly manage to avoid the stimuli that produce $X responses.
But compare your average 8chan poster to your average HN poster and you'll see that for sure not all online communities are the same.
But that does not mean all HN posters are free of being hateful/discriminating against certain groups of people. Be it by accident or willfully.